today is Sara's 43'd.  How's she gonna spend the day?  Here's what Sara says "I never really blow it out for my birthday. We always just will have a family party with the kids, except on my 40th. We had a huge, awesome (party). It was incredible, but so this year we're going to dinner as our group of friends, and then the day of my birthday we'll celebrate with all the kids, all seven kids, and family, extended family."